tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4335150632431753345.post4420844450792004302..comments2023-11-05T02:21:55.387-08:00Comments on this is not what i had planned: New beginnings...k@laklyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05366772609212990882noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4335150632431753345.post-63727449558084139192008-01-04T13:01:00.000-08:002008-01-04T13:01:00.000-08:00I'm glad you shared that with us. Charmedgirl said...I'm glad you shared that with us. Charmedgirl said it...that is some shit, sister. Telling my boys that their baby brother died and wasn't coming home(all from a cold hospital room) was one of the two hardest things I've ever had to do. You are one incredibly courageous mother and wife.a-https://www.blogger.com/profile/10228242752506448324noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4335150632431753345.post-8568568521633641952008-01-03T10:02:00.000-08:002008-01-03T10:02:00.000-08:00I don't even know what to say. I'm so sorry that y...I don't even know what to say. I'm so sorry that your 10 year old has to cry these tears, that he has to know anything about this kind of grief. It's the hardest thing in the world to have to watch, as a mother.<BR/><BR/>I love that when your husband said he didn't want more babies, you responded that it was the tragedy he didn't want. Who wants to invite that into their life. Certainly, not me. We are all scared and it's impossible no to be. <BR/><BR/>The email your wrote your husband is nothing short of beautiful. His response, powerful. I am pleased to hear you are trying again. I am happy to know that you are putting aside that fear. I wish you luck...I wish this for me too, and everyone else who feels this fear... XO.<BR/><BR/>PS And your cat. Your (bitchy) cat story made me smile. I'm sorry that you'll have to put her to sleep soon. Thinking of you.c.https://www.blogger.com/profile/02933776400434137451noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4335150632431753345.post-87226569984919332712008-01-03T07:41:00.000-08:002008-01-03T07:41:00.000-08:00Wow that's one hell of a post. Firstly I'm so sorr...Wow that's one hell of a post. <BR/><BR/>Firstly I'm so sorry that your little boy is having to feel this way. It must be heartbreaking to see him cry like that and to hear him speak about hope in that way. It's when I read posts like this that I almost (with the stress on almost) feel grateful for not already having children and having to see them go through this. I read so much about other parents having to worry about how their children cope too. My heart goes out to you and your family. I do wish there were some magic words or something anyone could do to take the pain away. With your love and support he will get through this, all you can do is listen and hold him and be there for him. <BR/><BR/>Your email you sent your husband was amazing. I am going to copy it down and keep it, I love the sentiments at the end of it.<BR/><BR/>I'll be keeping my fingers crossed for your quietly trying to not take too long. <BR/>(((hugs)))Coggyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07435179051565255934noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4335150632431753345.post-42348697245332512292008-01-03T05:19:00.000-08:002008-01-03T05:19:00.000-08:00oh my god...i am so glad my kids were 2 1/2...all ...oh my god...i am so glad my kids were 2 1/2...all they do is play "baby sister" by wrapping up a little elmo and a penguin with blankets and pacifiers and talk about how their baby sister is crying and rock them and stuff. that stings...but i could barely even read what you just wrote. that is some shit, sister. <BR/><BR/>and i think you're brave for trying again, but i think that's shit too (the being brave part), since i sometimes think it's not a choice, it's more like something that just has to happen down to our very last molecule. it's not necessarily a choice for me with my lovely infertility and all...but that's another matter entirely.<BR/><BR/>now, can you please come back to my place and choose an item? you can send your address privately to charmedgirl907@yahoo.com. i love how you are going to tell people that it's from your deadbabyfriend. we need to talk like that, i think.charmedgirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12317107200577724625noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4335150632431753345.post-57397843043108598602008-01-03T05:11:00.000-08:002008-01-03T05:11:00.000-08:00I am hoping for you tooI am hoping for you tooAshleighhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04483699312375749242noreply@blogger.com